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What does it take to be a winner?
I reflect a lot on my childhood – for good reason I think. I didn’t have a bad one; in fact, as I recall, it was quite normal and enjoyable as far as childhoods go. I was an only child, but not a spoiled one. My first job was a paper route at the age of 12. From there, I was always gainfully employed right up to now. Thanks to you people!
So what does this have to do with the question of being a winner? Well let’s see. Some people gauge being a winner on employment; some gauge it on happiness; and some on a person’s physical attributes. How do I gauge it? I believe that employment, family and happiness are three key components. Does being the biggest, brightest and most handsome child in the family make you a winner? Some may think so, but I’m here to tell you that this is not true. Want to know what makes you a winner? You are only a winner when you are satisfied with yourself, and the way you live your life. Controversial … maybe.
The reason I bring this up is this: I see a lot of people in the world struggle in business and in life. I see those that just give up and those that strive to make it work. What I can’t understand is the acceptance of failure. If you live your life and hate your job, shouldn’t you just quit? But wait … you need money to feed your family and make your Honda payment. Why not look for another job? Too much work involved in that, huh? That’s what I don’t get. I meet these people that are miserable and it shows. It shows in their stance, their demeanor and, even for the real unhappy ones, in their phone conversations.
Here is my advice to all of you that seek it: Stop bitching about your jobs, get off your asses and do something about it! There is nothing worse than other people (us) dealing with you if you’re unhappy. If you’re stuck, go back to school. Lets face it, not working is not an option. Get a handle on what makes you happy and get a job doing that. You do this and you will feel like a winner each day you wake.
I know that this really has nothing to do with IT Security, but hey, this is my magazine and my letter and I can write what I want!
I encourage you to read this publication from cover to cover. And start sharing your input with us. Write me a letter; chances are, I may publish it in next issue.
All the Best,
John Riccio
Publisher
jr@impiremedia.com
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